Our first Hottie of the Week for October's LGBT History Month is my twinsie, Ethan Le Phong. I interviewed the Broadway triple threat on his life as a GLAM (good-looking Asian man), his coming out story, and experience as an out actor in the industry. We need more role models like him in both the gay and Asian communities - I mean, just look at the way he licks and slaps himself with that delectable lollipop. Live the dream, Phong, I'll see you in auditions soon!
Ethan Le Phong and Alison Ewing in Mamma Mia!
We both believe visibility is an extremely powerful tool in regards to inspiring and encouraging the younger generations to pursue their dreams. As Mahatma Gandhi eloquent stated, "you must be the change you want to see in the world." Neither of us growing up had very many, if any, gay or Asian roll models to look up to so it was and continues to be very important to follow that teaching.
What was your experience with coming out of the closet?
Among my friends, it was pretty easy. Rumors were circulating my sophomore year of college and I wasn't too stressed about it. I can't say that for my boyfriend at the time. I kinda wanted it to happen because I went to a private Baptist college - oh, the scandal! My siblings were pretty much just waiting for me to say something and when I did they just said, "DUH!" Now with my parents, I waited until I was 27 to tell them. I was so nervous that I couldn't tell them in person so I wrote them a letter. Once they read it, they called to tell me that they loved me. My dad laughed and my mom cried and they still love me today... although I'm sure they are still waiting for a grandchild from me.
How have you dealt with being a minority in the entertainment industry as a gay, Asian male?
In the theatre world, I haven't really face any discrimination. I think I try to audition with the utmost respect [for] my characters and never let my sexuality be involved or part of the decision. As for television and film, my first movie was a gay music review and for my first tv gig I was a gay student, and was called a ladyboy - it was a comedy. Who knows what my next role will be.
What piece of advice would you give to your younger self to help him get through those awkward years?
To stand up for your beliefs and respect who you are and always follow your dreams because, those who care will stand with you and those who don't, well, let them eat chicken.
Photo credit: Nareth Chuon